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Use your mind to get success in professional front

There was a time when meeting with and talking to an unknown man was considered as a social taboo for a woman. The reason behind this was to save girls from any kind of misshaping. People thought that if women interact with a stranger, this will surely ruin their social status and respect. Family and social condition of women were going through a very bad and miserable phase when education facility and self-dependency were equally denied for them.


hardworkingBut now this is a history. In today`s scenario women and men are working together without any restriction.  Women are going outside their home and family boundaries to earn and study well. If the family responsibilities are important for a woman she also considers her career as a priority.


But as we know that women are comparatively more emotional than any other creature on earth. She gets attached with anyone very easily. If a person shows bit sympathy towards her, she is ready to shower all her feelings and attachment on him/her.


If you think this attitude of women as one of her positive quality, then you have to think about it anew.


May be it`s possible that this kind of nature and tendency of women is useful and fruitful in family and personal life, but now when we are breathing in a competitive environment when success and fame is our basic motive, we have to control our sentiments especially in our workplace and with colleagues. If we want to succeed it is highly recommended that the personal and professional relationship should be kept and maintain separately. The inter-relationship between them can cause serious and negative consequences. As you cannot control or overlook your emotional attachment and feelings so you have to maintain a distance with your counterparts, especially in the case of women. It’s not always men whom they get attracted to, but sometime she feels emotional bounding with their female friends also and because of this she restrict her way to success by her own.


One has to understand that office relations are very formal and selfish. You never know whether the people around you are cunning or reliable. So if you really want to succeed, you ought to maintain a reasonable distance with your colleague and the following points will teach you how:


  • Whether you are a college going student or a working woman, you have to balance your personal and professional relationship. You can discuss your professional problems with family and close friends but if you are facing some personal problem don’t ever make it an issue within office premises. It will definitely show that you are emotionally week.
  • If you want to work hard and make a difference in office, you have to stay yourself apart from any type of office gossip with your bitchy counterparts. Doing this you can concentrate on your work more efficiently.
  • Mental and emotional strength is very fruitful in those kind of circumstances when anyone trying to get close with you.
  • Without any discrimination whether it’s a female colleague or a male one, you should think practically rather than getting emotional when you are going to take a decision.
  • It’s good to maintain a healthy relationship with office fellows but it does n`t mean that one stop thinking about her/his own. First think what is right for you then favor for your friend.
  • Women should deal their office fellows very smartly. If you succeed in a project many people come to congratulate you and want to be your friend, but who is reliable and honest among them, you will have to decide with maturity.
  • Some how, you gets attracted to anyone in office, first try to sneak peak in his background and then their basic information. So that you can save yourself with further problems.

Although no one can control their feelings, but if you keep above points in mind then you can live your life more happily and without any stress.


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